So yesterday I posted about my whirlwind experiences shooting a few well-known personalities and their closets. Today I’m posting about me.
Through the whole experience shooting Kyle Williams and Rod Streater in San Francisco, I also knew it was going to be an exercise in something I’ve been focusing on making a priority over the past few years…whether it’s for a few minutes, a few hours, or a few days – meditation, a hike, stopping for a few deep breaths, whatever – making it a point to always find time for myself. I’ve so often times in the past lost vision of why I was doing what I was doing…the passion…and it’s been nothing sort of soul-murder, leading to derailment of my original vision and purpose and intended paths, some that have lasted for years. For this reason, it’s become a priority to always make sure to do something to try to keep that vision at the forefront. Especially in the midst of running from one house to another to another location to another and between cancellations and reschedulings and all the psychotica that comes with being in the midst of a commercial shoot along with portrait and closet shoots for 4 professional athletes in 3 days, where it can be easy to lose track of why you love doing this to begin with. So on the final evening of a 3 day excursion to San Francisco, I took a couple midnight hours to hang out on San Francisco’s Embarcadero overlooking the new Bay Bridge light show. Snapped away and came away with a couple that satisfied the soul.
But even past this, I decided to extend the ‘me time’ through the next day. Figured Jennifer from WhoHasItApp could use a break from her devices that she’s insanely married to (iPad, iPhone, even a Blackberry, all at once) and since I had yet to make my yearly excursion to Big Sur along the coast (and knew there was no reception there), I made up my mind that I’d force one upon her and we’d make our way back to Lalaland via Pacific Coast Highway. And, well, that’s never a bad idea. Sure, it adds an extra few hours to the trip, but a few hours is nothing compared to the benefits it provides the mind.
We got to drive through the redwoods, see the waves crash against the coastline from 2000-foot cliffside vantage points that most see only in pictures and films, the elephant seals at San Simeon were out basking in full force, stopped for some insanely mouth-watering barbeque at Alex’s in Pismo Beach, which I’d HIGHLY recommend…it was perfect. Well, almost. While I’d love to say it was all good, there was a moment when the government shutdown madness truly got personal, and that’s when I slowed down to show Jennifer the best campsite in California…and we ran across this:
Again, the silver lining…even Mama Nature needs her downtime.
Anyhow, below is a gallery of some of those ‘myself time’ images. Hope you enjoy.
Ok then, so the final episodes of the “3 National Parks, 3 States, 2 Weeks, 1 Crap Bag” series coming soon…I promise…Thanks for waiting, thanks for reading, and thanks so much for all the wonderful comments that have accompanied these posts both here and on my Google Plus page. It’s been a fantastic experience so far and you all have a huge hand in pushing me to keep on keeping on. I only hope that some of my posts resonate enough to help you do the same.
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7 responses to “The Undeniable Importance of ‘Me Time.’”
More people need to think about “me-time”. We live in that world where we think sitting on our phones and squinting at the internet is me-time, It’s not. We need some time to just lay down and enjoy the day as it passes over us. Now, the trick is finding a niche where we can afford to have days like that…and doing so will make us incredibly happy.
completely agree Zach! took me over 30 years to realize it and begin to let the static fall off to the sides…I suppose better late than never! especially as time goes by, me time becomes more precious.
Great post. Also a reminder to each & every person how important “me” time is. I think it is especially important in this day & age when people can’t seem to unconnect from all the electronics in our lives. Some people seem to be permanently connected to their cell phone. That situation bothers me a lot as we do not need to be always connected. Time out in nature is one of the best things you can do for yourself. I’m lucky that at this time in my life I can usually make the time when I want or need. I know that next week I need/want to get out somewhere to just chill for awhile. There is so much beauty in northern California now that I can’t decide just which direction to go, an old favorite, some place new or a place visited but not often. Decisions, decisions, decisions!!
Haha! And those are beautiful decisions to have Donna! Sure beats iphone or blackberry or iPad or Samsung or apple or PC or chromebook or blahblahblah. But yes, you’re absolutely right, the biggest problem however is that people don’t realize or recognize how important and beneficial it is these days until they try it, and it’s no easy task to get them to try it. The encouraging this is, is NEVER regretted. Thanks gain so much for following along Donna! I love it!
P.S. Loved all the pictures. Thanks.
Haha! The pleasure is absolutely all mine!
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